Last night I was in a bathroom, there was some renovation going on. N and my stepdad were around. There was a small rectangular hole in the bathroom wall by the door, and a kitten in the hole. The kitten fit in there perfectly and was sleeping sweetly. Later a toddler (my daughter?) was picking the cat up by the tail - I was horrified that she had the instinct to do that, didn't know automatically, then I realised I had to teach her.